Category: Life

Must Read: 25 clever ideas to make life easier

Hey there!

Every now and then I come across something that is just so brilliantly amazing I want everyone, and their mom to know. The following article is the source behind one of those moments for me. As creative as I think I am when it comes to simplifying things, I wonder if even my best ideas can’t touch some of these suggestions. Check out The Daily Buzz for 25 clever ideas to make life easier. It is definitely worth the read.

Here’s my two cents on tricks that have made my life a lot easier:

On the go!

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Ladies, always keep a bottle of clear nail polish on you. It’s like an emergency lifesaver for a manicure slip up while you’re on the run. Two strokes of clear polish and everything’s back to normal.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Keep a pair of sneakers in the car. There are a million reasons why they might come in handy –trust me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know, I know the concept is still a little less than ideal, but the reality is that you can’t always make it to the sink to brush your teeth. These little jokers are surprisingly powerful. If your life can be pretty hectic and your always on the go keep them around in case you find yourself in a bind.

 

Around the House

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It may not be on your mind those first couple of months after you buy a new pair of shoes, but eventually, they are going to begin to lose shape. Slow down the inevitable by creating newspaper inserts for your dear ones so they can hold form a longer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Every single article of jewelry I own is stored in a plastic baggie. This is especially convenient if you have A LOT of jewelry! Simplify things with this easy task to save you time when you’re getting ready.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you have any variation of the hanger above, (I call them “the dry cleaners hangers”) throw them out! For me personally, one of the most enjoyable qualities of fashion is being able to build my wardrobe. Wire hangers hinder you’re growing masterpiece by ruining the garments you’ve so carefully chosen.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I’m probably the only person who actually feels better about seeing this, but I don’t smoke so these are my cigarettes haha Life can be a stressful at times, and the best way to make life easier is managing stress efficiently. It’s really worth the investment of your time to try to find a vice that will relax you –one that won’t cause lung cancer. The thought of that alone should be stressful enough…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Keep a little money stash somewhere around the house. Anyone who has ever been towed knows that dreaded feeling of having to withdraw however many hundred dollars when your tuition, the carnote, rent or whatever other large expense is due the next day. It’ always good to have a back up plan, and don’t touch it unless it an emergency!

Have a great day!

-Chelsea

Looking for a job? Forbes has a few suggestions.

Hey guys!

It’s Monday, and if you are one of many unemployed Americans you may have mixed emotions about the best way to navigate all the difficulties that come along with unemployment. I know looking for a job can be tough, so I’d like to share this article with you all. Forbes has offered some really useful suggestions on 10 Things You Need To Do While You’re Unemployed.

Hang in there, you’re blessing is right around the corner! Have a great week!

-Chelsea

Buy What You Need and Want What You Have

Hey guys!

This may sound like a cheap shot, but I think it’s pretty safe to say that the terms American and debt are all but synonymous. Recently, my dad introduced me to a really great audio series, Debt Proof Living by Mary Hunt. I picked up a quote, and it is my new mantra for having a conscious sense of control over my financial circumstances. Her message was something like this,

“Choosing contentment is choosing to want what you have. Buy what you need, and want what you have!”

This may seem like a fairly logical lifestyle to live, but for many people, actively committing to this is a really difficult challenge to face on a daily basis. Fortunately, I have a friend, Charles Adi,  who is a financial advisor, and I am happy to announce that The Coffey Break will be highlighting his pearls of wisdom on, “How to be prepared when  life happens!”

Take a look below for an excerpt from his monthly newsletter, and follow the link for more articles and advice. Enjoy!

-Chelsea

This month’s newsletter focuses on taxes and your money. Over the past six months, the market has seen strong growth but recently suffered setbacks that many attribute to Europe. With uncertainties in Greece, Spain, and now possibly France, we examine a few Market-Movement Indicators that you need to be aware of to better understand its effect on economic growth in America.

There has also been much talk about the proposed changes in the tax law. From the expiring “Bush Tax Cuts,” changes to the tax brackets, and loss of several key deductions, there is much to wrap your head around. Let’s take a closer look at Taxes of the Past, Present, and Future.

We conclude by taking a closer look at some common Retirement Rules of Thumb and discuss Roth Conversion. With higher taxes around the corner this strategy could potentially save you thousands.

Happy Reading!

BLUEPRINT MONTHLY

The Unhealthy Relationship in Disguise

I came across the article below, and I’m pretty excited to share it with our Coffey Break readers. Yes, your relationship may be as beautiful as that warm feeling that comes over you when you think about your significant other, but sometimes, that beautiful relationship is really mediocre at best disguising itself as something more appealing.

Here’s why this article is interesting; what about those who are in a relationship, things have become less rosy and doubt has begun to creep in? It’s interesting because the term “gut feeling” couldn’t be more literal in my life. Anytime I’m upset it goes directly to my stomach; which sucks because it’s almost embarrassing how excited I get about food… I’m still trying to wrap my head around an efficient way to explain and identify the “unhealthy relationship”. I will say this, if you are wired the way I am, you’re stomach has already told you all you need to know. I think the author of the article does a fantastic job at helping one walk through scenarios and see things for what they are.

My humble advice to anyone questioning their relationship is to make a list. This has been my mom’s default advice time and time again to logically sort through a very emotional process. Weigh the good against the bad and then read the article below.

-Chelsea

It’s Not You, It’s Me….Hmm Actually It’s YOU!

By BellaNaija.com

You are wondering what the title is all about.

Well, let me explain.
Over a week ago, I was reading an article in the UK Daily Mail and the story was about a 40-something year old woman who had been in a relationship for seven years. She described her relationship as stable and loving. She also explained that she and her partner were both financially successful.
When she turned 42, she began yearning for a child. She discussed it with her partner and he didn’t seem too keen.
In her words, ‘My partner insisted he did not want children. Because he was so adamant, I smothered the feelings that were beginning to eat away at me from the inside’
Long story short, he eventually left her.
Years later, in her late 40s, she was miraculously blessed with a child (with her new partner) and then she found out that her ex-partner now also had a child.
In her words, ‘When I heard my ex was going to be a father – yes, the one who swore he did not want children – I would have had to repress a strong urge to rush over and axe him to death had I not had Deia (her daughter) by then’

In other words, it was clear that her partner knew she was not the one and did not want a permanent attachment, in this case – a child. If he hadn’t left, she would have clung on to the seemingly ‘stable’ relationship and just withered away. He would have eventually moved on and as she said, the outcome would have been very different. Perhaps even a headline on the nightly news…

It got me thinking. I’m sure you all know the concept of ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’. However, I feel as though that focuses on people who have just met or have been in short term relationships.

How about those in long term relationships. I hear of scenarios all the time that makes me just wonder. Sometimes maybe your partner is telling you something. It might be hard to hear but these clear signs point to the fact that YOU are just not the one.

All real stories…

Continue reading the scenarios at the original article: It’s Not Me, It’s You